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    Hidden Houston

    Searching for solitude

    Douglas Newman
    Dec 12, 2009 | 9:00 am
    • The Shri Swaminarayan Mandir is a breathtaking hand-carved Hindu temple thatsits like a diamond-in-the-rough in Stafford.
      Douglas Newman
    • The glistening white domes of the Mandir peeks over scrawny trees.
      Douglas Newman
    • The majestic structure rises out of the flat plain like a magical castle from aDisney movie.
      Douglas Newman
    • This sense of the unexpected is what our Hidden Houston columnist loves aboutthe city.
      Douglas Newman
    • Steps leading into the temple.
      Douglas Newman
    • Before making his ascent, Newman stopped, took a deep breath and just stoodthere, stone silent, gazing at the awesome structure before him - five toweringgold-capped pinnacles, 12 elegant domes and 136 intricately decorated pillars, amaze of Italian Carrara marble and hand-carved Turkish limestone. It was a workof art, the ultimate symbol of faith.
      Douglas Newman

    I'm not a religious fella. Nor am I particularly spiritual. I'm more likely to feel the presence of a higher power listening to a Coltrane solo rather than a rabbi's sermon.

    But like most people who appreciate art and architecture, I enjoy visiting inspired places of worship. Indeed, you don't have to be Catholic to be awed by the beauty of Notre Dame or Jewish to delight at Marc Chagall's stunning stained glass windows.

    Although I'm not personally moved by the Almighty, I am intrigued by the fruits of artists' divine inspirations, a witness to others' enlightenment, if you will. So naturally, I was eager to visit the Shri Swaminarayan Mandir, a breathtaking hand-carved Hindu temple that sits like a diamond in the suburban rough that is Stafford, TX.

    Despite my atheistic leanings, I decided to use this opportunity to get in touch with my spiritual side, to sit among the marble and limestone and meditate about the world beyond the material. For one afternoon I would bury the worries of work, sublimate the baseball standings, shut off my iPhone and concentrate on questions of faith.

    I gassed up the car, plugged in my iPod and set out down 59 South towards Sugarland. My journey took me along one of the more unsightly stretches of highway in Houston, a concrete canyon littered with neon signs for every chain imaginable - Mattress Firm, Long John Silver's, Loehmanns, Ramada Inn.

    As I passed Sharpstown Mall, I started feeling a bit on edge, unsure whether I wanted to go through with this spiritual exercise. Maybe I would just take a quick walk through the temple and call it a day.

    Hoping to attain a sense of calm, I scrolled through my iPod looking for some soothing tunes that could prepare me for the mind-trip to come.

    Joni Mitchell? Too wordy.

    Leonard Cohen? Too somber.

    Ravi Shankar? Too cliched.

    How about Brian Eno? Perfect! The slowly unfolding ambient soundscapes of “Discreet Music” was just what I needed to regain my focus.

    I made my way past the Beltway and exited at Kirkwood. As is typical of the newer subdivisions in Houston, the landscape is devoid of tall trees, shadows cast by strings of power lines rather than majestic live oaks. The houses are late 1980s vintage, each encircled by a gray wooden privacy fence. This is the kind of drab suburb that I fled for the East Coast twenty years earlier. Everything about it is soulless.

    I followed a quiet street for about a mile from the highway when I spotted the glistening white domes of the Mandir peaking over scrawny trees. I turned into the complex, gave a friendly wave to the attendant at the entrance and caught a glimpse of the majestic structure, which rises out of the flat plain like a magical castle from a Disney movie.

    Having grown up in Houston, I was used to seeing an odd mishmash of buildings, but the juxtaposition of the architectural wonder in front of me and the bland houses surrounding it was jarring. Yet this sense of the unexpected is what I love about Houston, and I bristled with excitement as I walked over to the base of the grand stairway that leads up to the Mandir.

    Before making my ascent, I stopped, took a deep breath and just stood there, stone silent, gazing at the awesome structure before me— five towering gold-capped pinnacles, 12 elegant domes and 136 intricately decorated pillars, a maze of Italian Carrara marble and hand-carved Turkish limestone. It was a work of art, the ultimate symbol of faith.

    After 15 minutes of taking in the splendor of the Mandir from afar, I climbed the steps and entered the temple. I slowly circled the interior, closely inspecting the ornate carvings that adorn the columns and ceiling. Sculptures of the Hindu gods looked on as I made my way through the marble maze. I felt comforted by the elegant limestone deities, as if they were guiding me on my quest to recapture a sense of spiritual feeling.

    A stream of worshipers, almost all dressed in traditional Indian garb, made their way in for afternoon prayers. As I watched each one ring the bell, or Ghanta, to invoke the Gods, a feeling of envy and longing overcame me.

    Growing up in a semi-observant Jewish household, I had spent countless hours in synagogue trying to find a connection to God. I yearned to believe, to enjoy the comfort of devotion so strong that any doubt melts away. In the uncertainty of life, it must be refreshing to have something that’s unwavering, that’s sure. But I never succeeded. Am I not hard-wired for faith? Am I lazy, shallow, or too rational?

    I remained in the shadows of the pillars for the next hour and looked on as the worshippers paid their respects to Vishnu, Sita, Ram, and the other sculptural deities that inhabit the Mandir. I tried to soak up the spirituality surrounding me, knowing full well that it was an exercise in futility. But all was not lost, for I was in the presence of a magnificent work of art, and that in and of itself, was enough to satisfy my soul.

    With the sun still beating down with all the fury of a Houston August afternoon, I headed down the steps and walked to my car. I turned to take one more look at the Mandir, and then drove off toward Highway 59 and the familiarity of the inner loop.

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    Brandy & Monica: The Boy Is Mine Tour
    Photo courtesy of Brandy & Monica
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    Man, Mariah season really is in full swing!

    Everywhere you turn, holiday events are taking place: photos with Krampus at Betelgeuse Betelgeuse, Christmas Village at Bayou Bend, a holiday tree-lighting concert at Hermann Square, even a boot-scootin’ holiday bash at The Bryan Museum.

    Houstonians definitely have plenty of chances to take a pic with Santa this weekend. Then again, some might prefer to take a snap with 2000s ingenue Shannyn Sossamon, who’ll be at River Oaks Theatre on Sunday.

    Thursday, December 4

    Betelgeuse Betelgeuse and Hellhound Social Club present “Photos With Krampus"
    Montrose cocktail bar/gourmet pizza joint Betelgeuse Betelgeuse is partnering with local dog rescue Hellhound Social Club for “Photos With Krampus,” a spooky and fun take on the traditional holiday event. The event celebrates the mythical horned figure who, in the Central and Eastern Alpine folkloric tradition, is said to accompany Saint Nick on late-night visits to children. A $30 ticket includes one professional photo with Krampus and one cocktail from the bar. 6 pm.

    Serrano Gallery presents Fernando Andriacci: "Algarabias" opening reception
    Fernando Andriacci, originally from Cuicatlan, Oaxaca, has devoted his life to art in many forms, including painting, ceramics, and monumental murals. He founded the Taller de Artes Plásticas Municipales y Pintura Monumental Rodolfo Nieto, a space that helped shape his artistic path. His art is full of animals, plants, and decorative symbols that create his own fantastic world, a personal bestiary full of imagination and color. Using a mix of techniques, he combines rich textures with balance and harmony. Through Thursday, January 15. 6 pm.

    A.D. Players presents Narnia The Musical
    The Chronicles of Narnia, C.S, Lewis’s beloved portal-fantasy saga, comes to life in a magical musical where talking animals and mythical beings await. Aslan, the great lion, returns in Narnia’s time of need, guiding children from our world through a journey of courage, selflessness, and wonder - set to soaring, spirited songs. Through Tuesday, December 23. 7:30 pm (2 and 7:30 pm Saturday; 2 pm Sunday).

    Friday, December 5

    The Kid presents Kids’ Meals Houston Donation Party
    Heights neighborhood bar The Kid is hosting a community event supporting Kids’ Meals Houston. Customers can enjoy specialty cocktails – The Comeback Kid and Kids’ Table (a mocktail) – crafted exclusively to raise funds for families facing food insecurity this holiday season. The bar will donate 100 percent of the proceeds from each featured cocktail to help provide nutritious meals to children across Houston. Following the event, cocktails will remain on the menu, and $3 will be donated back to Kids’ Meals Houston. Children are welcome until 7 pm. 4 pm.

    Memorial Park Conservancy presents Deck the Park
    Get into the holiday spirit at Memorial Park Conservancy’s annual Deck the Park, marking the kickoff of the Park’s month-long Holiday Lights display. Deck the Park will feature a variety of family-friendly activities, including letters to Santa and ornament decorating, a tree lighting ceremony, and an outdoor screening of the holiday classic The Santa Clause, with popcorn and s’mores. Attendees can enjoy seasonal refreshments, including hot cocoa, apple cider, craft beer from Eureka Heights and more. 5 pm.

    The Museum of Fine Arts, Houston presents Christmas Village at Bayou Bend
    A winter wonderland returns to Bayou Bend with Christmas Village at Bayou Bend. Ima Hogg’s historic mansion is transformed into an immersive, holiday-themed theater experience with live actors, theatrical effects, and Christmas decorations. The Christmas Village also includes carolers singing nightly, a hand-crafted model train, animated projections, and festive activities, including a cotton snowball toss, reindeer games, and sledding on a faux-snow slope. Through Tuesday, December 30. 5:30 pm.

    Malbon Store Grand Opening
    SoCal culture/golf enthusiasts Stephen and Erica Malbon will be in the Heights this weekend. They’ll be around for the grand opening of their latest Malbom golf apparel store, located on 713 Heights Blvd. (Formerly a Lululemon.) And you know else will be there? Why, it’s none other than Houston rap legend/golf enthusiast Scarface. Here’s hoping Mr. Scarface will drop some rap classics – and, maybe, a few primo golfing tips. 6 pm.

    Saturday, December 6

    Recipe for Success Foundation presents First Saturday Holiday Market
    Recipe for Success is hosting their First Saturday Holiday Market, a full day of family-friendly activities that celebrate the season and spotlight local makers, wellness, and hands-on learning. Attendees can start the morning with yoga, dig into interactive gardening workshops (pre-registration required), join chef-led cooking classes in the kitchen (pre-registration again), enjoy all-day kids’ activities, shop local vendors, taste seasonal bites, and celebrate the holidays outdoors. 9 am.

    Community Artists’ Collective presents Ashe Holiday Market
    Ashé Holiday Market returns to the Community Artists’ Collective this month. Open Thursdays through Sundays, the market, celebrating its 18th year, features a curated selection of unique items made by local artisans. Additional items include African fabric, masks, and other art pieces from various African nations. Items from the Sankofa Emancipation Project, Third Ward Blooms, and Kindred Stories are also available. Through Saturday, December 27. Noon.

    Mid Main Houston presents Holiday on Main
    Join Mid Main Houston for Holiday on Main, which proudly supports the Houston Food Bank. Enjoy an afternoon filled with music, Tarot readings, holiday card crafting, and complimentary beverages from Saint Arnold Brewing. Come make the season unforgettable with festive holiday portraits — whether with a loved ones, a special someone, or even a pet. Keep an eye out for special guests, including a special appearance by Santa. 1 pm.

    Deck the Hall: The Mayor’s Holiday Tree Lighting Concert
    Houston’s beloved and official kickoff to the holiday season is finally here. The free, family-friendly celebration, going down in Hermann Square at City Hall, will feature live music, festive entertainment, and the lighting of Houston’s official holiday tree. Grammy-nominated R&B star Brian McKnight will headline the evening, performing a selection of holiday favorites and timeless hits. And Mayor Whitmire will lead the official countdown to light Houston’s towering holiday tree. 4 pm.

    Sunday, December 7

    The Bryan Museum presents Holiday Delights: A Boot-Scootin’ Bash
    Kick up your boots for a Texas-sized celebration at Holiday Delights at Galveston’s Bryan Museum. This free community event features festive decorations, line dancing, a petting zoo, games, crafts, and photos with Santa. This year, Holiday Delights will shine brighter than ever with a “We Are Texas” 10th anniversary theme, including storybook readings, elf hunts, live music, and free admission to the museum. 10 am.

    Color Factory presents Winter Colorland Night
    Color Factory is throwing a Winter Colorland party to give everyone a chance to add some tinsel to the season. Attendees are invited to don their seasonal best, belt out their favorite holiday tunes, and enjoy a night of colorful connection. They will also receive a free photo print of their favorite moment, along with an exclusive holiday postcard pack to share the joy of color to those near and far. 4 pm.

    Brandy & Monica: The Boy Is Mine Tour
    Clinton-era soul sirens Brandy and Monica come to Houston as part of The Boy Is Mine Tour, their first-ever co-headlining journey. The tour builds on the legacy of their 1998 duet “The Boy Is Mine,” which spent 13 consecutive weeks at No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 and became a defining cultural touchstone of late ‘90s R&B. They'll be joined by special guests Muni Long, Jamal Roberts (fresh off his American Idol Season 23 win), and Houston’s very own Kelly Rowland. 7 pm.

    Brandy & Monica: The Boy Is Mine Tour
    Photo courtesy of Brandy & Monica

    Brandy & Monica: The Boy Is Mine Tour will be at Toyota Center on December 7.

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