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Smoke in Stone Oak

A wildfire drill almost gone wrong: Seeing smoke in suburban San Antonio

William James Gerlich
Sep 11, 2011 | 11:30 am

Seeing thick clouds of black smoke rolling toward your house is haunting, and packing up one's house in preparation for it to be burnt to the ground is even worse.

In suburban San Antonio, a wildfire spread throughout one of the most popular neighborhoods just in time to devastate my family's labor day barbeque plans. Although the flames were nowhere near the size of the big blazes in Bastrop, the fire was moving quickly.

My aunt, uncle and cousin called my father panicked because their house was bordering the flames. They started to gather their belongings, but a fireman yelled at them to drop everything and literally run. Don’t drive, run.

With nothing but the clothes on their backs, a cell phone and three dogs, they made it out of the subdivision, lungs filled with smoke but untouched by the fire.

My father picked them up, and we regrouped at my family’s house. Because of the panic-stricken mode my extended family was in, we decided to pack up as many of our belongings as we could before the fire made it to us.

We began grabbing photo albums, yearbooks, clothes and other valuables from around the house.

I’m sure we looked like chickens with our heads cut off, running back and forth from our rooms to our cars. I even packed a television, which in retrospect, of course, was ridiculous.

My father took the initiative of knocking on our neighbors' doors to alert them of the situation. “The fire is about a mile away, but could be coming to our neighborhood soon,” he told them.

There are five of us in my immediate family: My parents, two sisters and me. We each filled our individual cars with our belongings and began to evacuate the neighborhood like a parade of people prepared for the apocalypse.

All five cars drove to my grandparents' ranch outside of the city, where we waited. We watched the news, I Tweeted heavily, my sisters kept up with Facebook, and the rest of my family ate. Stone Oak, our neighborhood, was trending nationally for a while. Unfortunately it was because of a natural disaster, but still — trending!

After a while the news looked good. My aunt's house appeared to still be in the midst of the fire, but our house was going to be fine. An hour later we got word to head back to the city. Our next door neighbors had stayed behind and wrote on my sister's Facebook wall “all clear.”

As it turned out, our house was untouched, and my extended family’s home had sustained only minor damages (mostly water damage, because of the firefighters.)

It was almost embarrassing when all five of our cars drove back to our house to begin unpacking our massive suitcases. It was, however, a good test run. If the apocalypse were to come tomorrow or the world blows up in smoke on Dec. 21, 2012, my family will be prepared — television and all.

I am grateful that the firefighters were able to contain the flames, and grateful that my aunt's house was in better shape than we thought it was going to be.

What troubles me is thinking of those who have lost everything. No one in my neighborhood was in that situation, but my heart goes out to those in Bastrop because, for a moment, we knew how it felt. Pretty much helpless.

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Introducing CultureMap Houston's new advice column for navigating life

Eric Sandler
Jul 15, 2026 | 2:00 pm
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Eric Sandler, Emily Cotton, and Brianna McClane want to give you advice.

Introducing CultureMap Houston’s latest initiative in reader engagement and better living. “Ask the CM Three” is a new advice column from CultureMap city editor Eric Sandler (aka me), home and design contributor Emily Cotton, and jack-of-all-trades writer Brianna McClane.

The premise is simple. Over the last year or so, the three of us have become good friends. We like helping each other think through our problems and feel like readers might appreciate our perspective on how to confront the challenges of life in Houston.

Also, if we’re being honest, advice columns are incredibly fun to read. Being exposed to other people’s problems makes our own difficulties seem a little less onerous. It’s the same sort of schadenfreude that makes articles about restaurant closures so reliably popular.

Sure, readers could submit the obvious stuff (via this Google Form). Ask Sandler for a new restaurant for date night, Cotton for tips on scoping out estate sales, or McClane for how she’s balancing working from home with school being out for the summer. But we’re hoping to be challenged with questions where we disagree — what happens when Sandler’s Gen X indifference runs into McClane and Cotton’s Millennial enthusiasm?

To explain the idea in more detail, the three of us sat down for drinks at Bar Madonna. If the overall tone seems loose, well, we were into at least our second round of cocktails before we turned the recorder on.

Eric Sandler: This was your idea, Brianna — why do you want to start writing an advice column?

Brianna McClane: I've read Dear Abby since I was a child. Since then, I've devoured advice columns from The Washington Post, The New York Times, and plenty of others. My parents are pastors, so I grew up hearing everyone's problems and listening to the advice they gave. Looking back, I think that's one reason I love advice columns.

Even if the advice isn't for you, you can still learn something from it. And if you don't, you're at least getting to enjoy someone else's drama. One of my favorite parts is when advice columns get shared on social media. I'll always scroll through the comments to see what everyone else thinks.

Emily Cotton: I religiously read The Ethicist in The New York Times. It's written by an NYU philosophy professor, and I don't always agree with him, which is part of the fun.

Our parents used to have people over for poker night — or Rook, in my house. We'd be watching "TGIF" or the NBA Finals while our parents played cards with neighbors and coworkers, and we'd overhear who was feuding with whom or which neighbor had a new scandal.

I feel like this current younger generation didn’t get to live like that — they're more apt to be “blue-light-glasses voyeurs.” They're reading it on their phones, whether it's an advice column, Instagram, or Reddit. Maybe this bridges that generational gap. Older people lived it, younger people still want it.

BM: That's a good point. It seems to me that just a few years ago, people were much more likely to ask for opinions and advice on social media. Now it's easy to ask ChatGPT instead. But advice isn't always about finding an answer — sometimes it's about connecting with another person who's been through something similar.

EC: There’s a difference between exchanging knowledge and exchanging opinions. Let's be real specific here. I don't listen to just any knowledge anyone wants to share with me. I want it to be cited. I want it to be somewhat peer reviewed.

ES: I am with you on the New York Times columns, Emily. I'll read Ask a Manager, Work Friend, and Social Q’s pretty regularly.

Houston's a big, complicated city. If you read CultureMap, we'll tell you what's going on, but we don't offer a lot of opinions and we don't really rank things. People know us — or at least feel like they know us — from reading our work. I think there's some curiosity about what we think.

ES: All right, so what kind of questions are we looking for? Do we want relationships? Parenting?

EC: I would say all of the above. At the end of the day, this is about people reaching out to other people. Think of us as your unbiased friends who'll tell you what you need to hear.

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Got a relationship dilemma? Workplace conflict? Parenting question? Family drama? We want to hear it. Submit your questions anonymously through this Google Form, and Eric, Emily, and Brianna may answer them in an upcoming installment of Ask The CM Three.


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