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    Heavenly Homecoming

    Coming home: A milestone college reunion conjures up memories of the way we were

    Jane Howze
    Oct 28, 2012 | 2:30 pm
    • Jane Howze discovered a whirlwind of memories when she returned to her collegealma mater.
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    • Homecoming reunion is a time to recall former romances. Here, Jane and Edgar ata fraternity formal in the early '70s.
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    • Reconnecting with a college roommate brought back fond memories.
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    While many of my friends spent last weekend watching the baseball playoffs or big-time college football games, I was in Memphis to see my alma mater, Rhodes College, get mauled by Millsaps College — once again. It was Homecoming weekend. Although this was not the big 30th, 40th or 50th reunion for me, it was a milestone gathering for many of my friends and not knowing when I would see those classmates again, off I went.

    Rhodes College is a gem of a school nestled across from the Memphis Zoo and Overton Park, similar to Rice University’s proximity to Hermann Park. I’m biased, but it is spectacularly beautiful — the Gothic architecture style buildings sit in an idyllic 100-acre park-like setting. But besides the campus there is an intimacy the Rhodes experience offers. In our day there were only 1,100 students. Professors, actively concerned with our education and well- being, challenged us to question our beliefs, and explore our talents and potential.

    Even though it had been nearly 40 years, walking on campus was like entering a time machine and taking a hallucinogenic drug where people from your distant past appeared but were greyer, heavier, and — well—middle aged.

    Entering the cocoon

    Homecoming weekend was an emotional time for me. Even though it had been nearly 40 years, walking on campus was like entering a time machine or taking a hallucinogenic drug where people from your distant past appeared but were greyer, heavier, and — well—middle aged.

    My life in Houston became a little blurry as my past/current life at Rhodes took center stage. But it was so easy to get back into old routines. Within five minutes, my roommate and I were calling each other “roomie” — a term we hadn’t used since 1973.

    And just like in old days we hung out at the Pike house post football game, washing away the Lynxcat’s defeat with a beer—or two.

    College homecoming is different than a high school reunion

    Several years ago I wrote about returning to Birmingham for my 40th high school reunion after not seeing my high school or classmates since graduation. It was a watershed experience.

    My high school reunion was about connecting with my parent’s home and my early roots. A college reunion is a more intimate experience because many of us were living away from home for the first time and experiencing life on our own.

    And a college homecoming is, by its name, coming home. Coming home to a group of people with whom you lived. Coming home to the ideals, dreams and hopes you had as an 18-year-old.

    And a college homecoming is, by its name, coming home. Coming home to a group of people with whom you lived. Coming home to the ideals, hopes and dreams you had as an 18-year-old.

    And it is returning to the scene of innumerable heartbreaks and joys that no doubt contributed to the fabric of who I am. No doubt about it. Homecoming brings up a lot of emotions.

    Everyone has a story

    Twenty years ago I might have been interested in whether any of my classmates might be good clients for my firm. But that is so ….yesterday.

    This time, people seemed to connect with each other on an emotional level. Our possessions, careers and children's accomplishments were not as important to brag about like they were at earlier reunions. This time, conversation centered how we felt, how we reflected on our life and whether our dreams were just dreams or whether they became a reality.

    Some friends had achieved personal and professional success. Others had experienced unspeakable tragedies, losses and challenges. With these classmates, it was easy to be open and vulnerable. And with all stories, there was magic in the telling and intimacy in the sharing.

    Old stories aren’t so interesting to spouses

    There is a special place in heaven for spouses who attend reunions. I observed a few non-Rhodes spouses trying to act interested when conversations started with “Remember that night on the 2nd floor of Bellingrath Hall when we surprised the women with a panty raid….”

    And some classmates’ stories have come to an end

    It is only normal that by the time you reach your 60s that you will lose friends to illness and accidents. Those losses seem more palpably sad in a group setting because of the collective memories of the individual. Who knew sitting together in the sorority house in 1972 that Frances would die of cancer before she was 40 or Jack would become a famous doctor only to be one of the first people we knew to die of AIDS?

    Who knew sitting together in the sorority house in 1972 that Frances would die of cancer before she was 40 or Jack would become a famous doctor only to be one of the first people we knew to die of AIDS?

    Yes, there was sadness and a toast to those who had left this earth way too soon. And with that we couldn’t help but be aware of our own mortality. Who in the room would not be at the next reunion?

    Passion to pals

    And of course no homecoming story is complete without the mention of seeing the former flame. Edgar was the love of my life through high school and college. We broke up his senior year and never saw each other again until three years ago. There was no bitter break up—just growing in different directions.

    Edgar and I have both been happily married to other people for over 30 years and could not be more different (he doesn’t even do Facebook!) yet spending an afternoon with this man who knows every family member and person in my life throughout college and high school was a warm and joyful experience.

    And how wonderful to see that impish boy with the sparkling green eyes become the doctor and man he dreamed of becoming and then some as he unselfishly gives his time helping victims of world disasters.

    Emerging from the cocoon

    In the flash of an eye it was Sunday and time to enter the time machine and return to my current life. Such a paradox: Sad to be leaving but happy to be going home—my Houston home, my Houston life.

    I was not the only one to shed a few tears while hugging friends goodbye. Unfortunately my time machine turned out to be a United Express jet with a mechanical problem. Perhaps symbolic of my own resistance to returning, I arrived home six hours late. My luggage, apparently equally conflicted, arrived home 24 hours later. The entire weekend seems a little blurry now. It seems like a dream but a dream I can have again next year at my 40th reunion.

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    1. tree-mendously stylish

    New, art-filled boutique hotel debuts in Houston with bold vintage flair

    Emily Cotton
    Dec 5, 2025 | 1:59 pm
    Hotel Daphne lobby
    Photo by Julie Soefer
    Hotel Daphne introduces sophisticated vintage flair to The Heights.

    Taking one step beyond the threshold of the new Hotel Daphne in the Heights is — in a word — transformative. Layered with handcrafted details, various textiles, warm-natured tones, and vintage and custom pieces that embrace contemporary whimsy, Houston’s newest property from Austin-based company Bunkhouse Hotels has truly outdone itself.

    The five story, 49-room property features an all-day restaurant called Hypsi, along with a picturesque walled-courtyard, jewel-box library, lobby retail shop, and a perfectly-curated art collection that could easily rival the best galleries. Those looking to make a splash will be delighted to know that a pool, dedicated outdoor bar, and 10 poolside bungalow suites are currently in the works to open in the spring of 2027. Hotel Daphne is Bunkhouse’s second Houston property, joining the Hotel Saint Augustine that opened in Montrose in 2024 and earned a prestigious Michelin Key in October.

    Setting itself apart from other new build properties, Hotel Daphne has taken painstakingly-precise care not to have disturbed the numerous mature Live Oak trees surrounding the building, giving the hotel a “we’ve always been here” quality that locals can appreciate. Those very trees inspired the hotel’s name, after Daphne of Greek mythology, who famously changed herself into a laurel tree and represents allure and restraint.

    “With Hotel Daphne, we set out to create a project that bridges Houston Heights’ eclectic energy with its residential roots to seamlessly blend into the surrounding landscape,” Timothy Blanchard, founder, principal architect, Blanchard A+D tells CultureMap. “Drawing on the area’s commercial and historic cues, we shaped the building around large heritage oak trees to create a place that feels welcoming, restrained, and quietly refined.”

    The hotel’s exterior features stepped parapets, dark steel sash windows, and soft gray shutters that bridge the scale between neighboring bungalows and historic industrial structures. Local landscape firm McDugald Steele rounds out the exteriors team with lush selections befitting the building and playing nicely with native surroundings, while giving nods to the Heights’ architectural charm and its origins as a utopian society founded in the 1890’s.

    Bunkhouse designed the interiors in-house, with 80 percent of the furniture and decor designed and selected during the initial design phase, leaving the remaining 20 percent to be selected post buildout. Select pieces like the show-stopping, circular modular sofa in the lobby, were sourced during the recent Round Top Fall Antiques Show. Situated beneath a vintage Murano chandelier, the sofa’s striped linen has been swapped for a more commercial-friendly Gem Velvet from Brentano, while the exposed sides have been dressed in a playfully-patterned Bargello from Nobilis. Suffice it to say: she’s Instagram-ready.

    “We always like to keep a healthy mix of vintage. When everything is custom or off the shelf, the end result can feel planned, prescriptive, and a little too perfect. Leaving room for the unplanned is where a dose of magic happens,” explains Tenaya Hills, head of design for Bunkhouse Hotels and JdV by Hyatt. “If you use up every inch of space with things you decided months before, you lose the creativity that hits you while you’re out shopping for vintage, or even when you’re sitting around with your team in the finished space thinking, ‘Okay, what does this space actually need?’ And also — it’s just fun.”

    A right turn off of the lobby leads to Hotel Daphne’s library. Absolutely drenched in a gorgeous, high-gloss blue, the impressive cabinets and bookcases house everything from books to ceramics and found objects — feel free to grab a book off the shelf and get cozy. Grounded by a handwoven rug by Shame Studios, the library offers three custom tables for gaming, providing an onyx chess set, marble checkers, and one table left bare for board games or other amusements. The library’s French doors can be closed off for private events, meetings, and dinners as well.

    Rounding out the first floor, Italian-style restaurant Hypsi, led by two-time James Beard Award nominee Terrence Gallivan, nods to the area’s Prohibition-era supper club history. Opulent and playful details include a blueberry lava stone bar outfitted with leather Cassina chairs, an indoor fireplace framed by an antique mantel, banquettes piled with psychedelic pillows, vintage Gerli chairs reupholstered in velvet, and custom Carimate dining chairs by Vico Magistretti.

    Hypsi’s adjoining vine-wrapped courtyard and Hotel Daphne patio offer outdoor dining. Playful Gubi patio furniture, paired with vintage, mosaic-tiled tables hand-painted to depict nymphs and the like, is available for more informal lounging. Remember those books in the library? Pair one with a cocktail or coffee while taking in an afternoon breeze.

    The remaining four floors are all guest rooms. Hotel Daphne offers a robust selection of double-queen rooms and single-king rooms, with both configurations available in ADA options. Select rooms, like the Terrace King Rooms, offer outdoor balconies. The Terrace King Premiere is 890 square feet, featuring a king bed, lounge area, workspace, and a terrace with dining and lounge furniture — perfect for entertaining a small group outdoors.

    Larger groups may opt for one of the two suites. The Balcony Suite is 850 square feet, featuring a king bed, a bistro table with seating, a parlor room with lounge area, dining table for six, wet bar, and a Juliet balcony. The Penthouse Suite is 1,150 square feet, featuring two rooms with king beds, plus a lounge area, a parlor room, dining table for eight, lounge area, wet bar, and two bathrooms. The Penthouse Suite is a three-key suite and each space can be booked individually.

    Guest rooms feature custom upholstered beds with floral velvet headboards inspired by Trebah Gardens. In fact, the fabric itself is Trebah Velvet by Osborne & Little.

    “We love that fabric and it brought exactly the mood we were looking for,” explains Hills. “Against the room’s more classic backdrop, we wanted an element that felt a little trippy and not-so-perfect, something that captured the spirit of the hotel. The pattern has this dreamy, slightly surreal quality that lets a subtle, ethereal, almost acid trip note come through. The hotel takes inspiration from the Heights’ beginnings as a planned utopian community, but we’ve layered in its history of 1930s clandestine drinking culture and the patina of time to a home that would have occurred on that original idealism. Trebah felt like the perfect way to thread those stories together, refined on the surface, with a little fray underneath.”

    The beds are all dressed in luxe Sferra linens (bath towels are also Sferra), and rooms are additionally outfitted with mohair seating, Arts & Crafts-style credenzas, plus natural stone tables and vintage finds. Adjoining bathrooms are wrapped in rich green Fireclay tiles that play magnificently with onyx vanities. Hotel Daphne’s signature amenities are by Dr. Vranjes of Florence, Italy, and are available for purchase in the lobby’s gift shop, including its signature scent, Dr. Vranjes’ Onyx Rose Tobacco.

    Also available in the gift shop are Hotel Daphne’s signature guest room robes. Collecting robes from Bunkhouse properties has become somewhat of a thing, to say the least.

    “Bunkhouse has a tradition of creating a custom robe for every property, says Hills. “Daphne’s robe was inspired by vintage men’s pajamas, designed to bring a masculine touch to balance the softer, feminine details throughout the rooms. Its striped pattern and colorway were directly drawn from the Trebah Velvet fabric used on the headboards. This connection makes the robe feel distinct but fully integrated with the overall guest room palette.”

    If the carpeting looks familiar, it’s not a trick of the mind. The spaces not clad in brass-inlaid, herringbone wood floors are swathed in patterned carpeting inspired by William Morris’ iconic “Strawberry Thief” pattern, but adjusted and created using AI — that’s certainly one way to mix old with new.

    In an interesting twist to Bunkhouse tradition, a substantial portion of the art on display is held in a private collection. Hotel owner Ben Ackerley and his father will rotate select pieces from the Ackerley Family Collection for guests of the hotel to enjoy. Bunkhouse art director Dina Pugh sourced works by Austin-based painter Alexandra Valenti that are on display in the guest rooms and hallways.

    An additional 160 works of art in the property belong to the Ackerley Family Collection. In January of this year, Hesse McGraw, formerly executive director of Contemporary Arts Museum Houston, came on as Hotel Daphne’s art director. Find works by Vernon Fisher and Kent Dorn on display in the hotel’s lobby, plus artists Kelli Vance and Dorothy Hood on view in the library. The giant Matt Kleberg overlooking the dining room at Hypsi is on loan from Houston’s Hiram Butler Gallery until January, when a commissioned work by the same artist will be completed. The untitled work will be difficult to miss with its 15’ x 8’ stature.

    Ackerley believes that sharing his family’s collection with the city will benefit living, Texas-based artists in a myriad of ways, especially by putting them in front of other potential collectors.

    “99-percent of collectors have no relation to the artists. They look at it as an investment and have no emotional connection to the work or the person behind it,” says Ackerley. “Whereas, we collect people we hang out with. We support living, contemporary Texas artists, and 80-percent of what you’ll see in this hotel is that — there is plenty of cool art.”

    Bunkhouse was purchased by Hyatt Hotels in October 2024, but there are no signs of Hyatt branding in the hotel. The plus is that rooms can be booked with points through Hyatt’s rewards program. Rooms at Hotel Daphne begin at $359 per night.

    Hotel Daphne lobby

    Photo by Julie Soefer

    Hotel Daphne introduces sophisticated vintage flair to The Heights.

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