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    Home and Deranged

    A sister's deranged dream results in words to live by

    Caroline Gallay
    Jun 18, 2010 | 8:04 pm
    • I might have had an existential experience a few weeks ago at Miller Outdoor
      Photo by Leroy Gibbins
    • My uniform? Not this hot.
    • Accept it, sister. You've got to learn to bounce.

    Last night, my sister had a dream that I fashioned a ship out of crepe myrtle tree sheddings, loaded her onto it and meant to push it off the roof of the office building featured in Adventures in Babysitting. Every time she tried to escape, I screamed, “This is happening! EMBRACE IT!”

    It’s an odd scene, to be sure, but I agree with her observation — it’s very much something I would say. For me, these words have been ones to live by.

    I can only speculate, but I doubt my dream self meant that my sister should be giddy at the prospect of falling off the roof. Rather, she should accept it — and make the most of the utterly bizarre situation she’d found herself in.

    It’s tempting in this life to make lots of grandiose plans (like not plummeting off buildings at the hands of a deranged sibling) but there’s no room for reservations on the coulda woulda shoulda express.

    I suppose strength is important, but more so is flexibility. You’ve got to learn to bounce.

    Learning to bicycle several years behind the curve, clutching the handlebars in the baseball field across the street from my old house. My best friend’s dad has taken up the task of teaching me and runs, pushing me — both hands on the seat, his full weight and speed thrown behind us. I don’t need to bike — I can blade. Or skateboard even, there are more pads that way. Is this really necessary?

    This is happening. Embrace it.

    My total ineptitude at standardized spatial reasoning launching frenzied applications to private middle schools. Do I really have to go? It can’t possibly make that big a difference, and I’m not even thinking about college yet; I want to be a professional ballerina. I won’t know anyone, and I’m not sure the uniform suits me.

    This is happening. Embrace it.

    The sudden introduction of boobs and bras, boys and dramatics. Burn books, social awkwardness, and bad highlights. You can keep the driver’s license. I’ll go back to the second grade, thankyouverymuch.

    This is happening. Embrace it.

    A phone call, two days before college graduation, to let me know that the little company I had signed on to join had just been dissolved. Frozen on my roommate’s floor, unable to process the wasted plans, or what I would tell my parents.

    This is happening. Embrace it.

    If you’re lucky, one day your tepid acceptance will turn into a real embrace — a regular bear hug.

    I was spread out on the hill at Miller Outdoor a few weekends back with my boyfriend, watching the Met’s summer dance series. I looked down at my discarded sandals, the picnic basket, our too-warm wine, and his hand on mine in the grass. My mind floated out a little broader, and I thought about my precious little apartment, my friends, my job and the turbulent year it’s been.

    In a moment of stillness I considered what I'd made of my short adult life (accidentally or on purpose) and thought: “It's happening! Embrace it.”

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    washed out

    Houston DJs remember pioneering music store that's closing after 50 years

    Craig D. Lindsey
    Apr 28, 2026 | 4:49 pm
    Soundwaves record store closing sign
    Photo by Craig D. Lindsey
    Soundswaves announced its imminent closure on Saturday, April 25.

    The parking lot of the Soundwaves on 3509 Montrose was well-populated on Saturday, April 25. Earlier in the day, the record/skate/surf shop announced on Instagram that the store would be closing soon and all the merchandise was 50 percent off. Of course, people showed up to grab as many items – LPs, T-shirts, skate shoes – as they could, waiting in line as longtime owner Jeff Spargo rang up customers one-by-one.

    Soundwaves was once Houston’s mightiest independent record-store chain, with locations all over the city (its South Main location was frequented by hip-hop heads like the late DJ Screw and famed producer/ex-employee DJ Premier). It all started in 1970 when a then-19-year-old Jeff Spargo opened the Inland Surf Shop in Westbury. Seven years later, he would open up his first Soundwaves near Hobby Airport. He would later merge surfing and sounds when he launched the Montrose location in 1997. An official closing date has yet to be announced, and CultureMap was unable to reach Spargo for comment.

    As the new millennium introduced streaming-music platforms that made physical media almost obsolete, record chains like Soundwaves were on the decline. The Montrose store – once a prime destination for local and visiting DJs, with its overwhelming, eclectic selection of vinyl and CDs – would eventually become the last one standing.

    We asked a few of the city’s finest spinners if they have memories of stocking up at that location and/or other Soundwaves spots:

    Emdee “DJ Kool Emdee” Anderson: “I used to frequent it very often. I remember when DJ Premier used to work at the original Main St. location. And when No More Mr. Nice Guy [from his hip-hop group Gang Starr] was released, he put copies of the album in the front of every record slot. I joke with him about that when I see him.

    “That location was a hangout spot for DJs and producers. I got a number of gigs by helping others with music suggestions.”

    Kris Stivers: “I have tons of memories (and spent tons of money on records). I was there all the time – practically every location. I introduced my sister to a buddy of mine who worked there and, now, he’s my brother-in-law. My sister then got a job at the Montrose location. She called me once from the store and put Questlove on the phone. I met Little Brother and other artists there. I miss those days.”

    GrandfatherCLOC: “I met Blind Rob and Devin The Dude at the one on Gessner & 59. I still have a Soundbombing II T-shirt from when The ARE was working at South Main.

    “The most memorable was meeting DJ Theory from [KTRU radio show] 12" Sub, a few years after it was off the air, at the one on Montrose. I heard one of the employees speaking and was like, that's Theory's voice!”

    Jason “Flash Gordon Parks” Woods: “I went to all the locations. One of my fondest memories was finding Roy Ayers Ubiquity’s Starbooty and feeling like Steel in Juice.”

    Jason “DJ Burb” Rodgers: “I only went to the one on Main. I used to go there every Tuesday after getting out of class at UH-D to listen to some new releases in the listening booths.”

    Jason Graeber: “I remember all the great music lovers who worked there. Chris and Brandon always knew about the new EDM artists that were coming out. Bucky was great at introducing people to new rock and underground music. Before you had online influencers, the kids at the record stores drove what people listened to. I remember walking in and checking the end caps from my favorite employees to see what new music they were recommending. I feel that this is something that is missing and why it is harder for great bands to get traction.”

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