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    The High Life

    Business travel etiquette: 7 rules to thrive — and survive — on the road withyour colleague

    John C. Lamar
    Apr 17, 2011 | 12:00 pm
    • If you’re only going for a two-day business trip, ditch the steamer trunk andtravel light.
    • Cash is King.
    • As I sat in our rental car in the 120-degree Phoenix heat, motor idling, mycolleague was busy inside eating pecan waffles.
    • Be punctual.

    I typically travel solo—but observing a lawyer with a client at the airport last week made me realize there should be an etiquette guide for business travel with your manager or a client. Though I’ve written Road Warrior blogs, I’m certainly no Miss Manners of the road, but the following seem obvious.

    The primary rule is to adapt your behavior to that of your manager or client. Do not be high maintenance. This can play out in several specific ways:

    1. Luggage

    If you’re only going for a two-day business trip, ditch the steamer trunk. Rid yourself of any thoughts of checking luggage; it is rude and inconsiderate for others to wait a half hour for your 50-lb. roller bag to come off the luggage carousel.

    A corollary to this rule is not to bring so many clothes that your client/manager thinks that you are auditioning for the next season of The Bachelor or The Bachelorette. This is, after all, a business trip.

    2. Meals

    While traveling with others, you may not be in control of what you eat, when you eat, or if you eat at all. Several years ago, I was traveling with a young associate. As I sat in our rental car in the 120-degree Phoenix heat, motor idling, my colleague was busy inside eating pecan waffles. Exasperated, I went in looking for her and she responded, “I always have to have a big breakfast.” That was the last time we traveled together.

    Similarly, if your companion orders a Diet Coke for dinner, don’t ask for the wine list. If your client/manager orders wine, permit yourself a glass of wine, but do not make a big deal of tasting several wines, sending them back, or behave in any way that calls attention to yourself. Your goal is to blend in and to be low maintenance.

    3. Be organized

    Your travel companion should not have to deal with you forgetting the location of your credit card, car key, boarding pass, or parking ticket. I remember traveling with my business partner (who will be furious at me for recounting this story) who tends to be a little absent minded. We had a meeting at 9 a.m. and at 8:55, she called in a panic and I had to go to her room to help her find the keys to our rental car, which she had somehow misplaced in the depths of her suitcase. Really, you don’t want your business partner going through your suitcase looking for lost car keys.

    4. Be punctual

    If your client/manager likes to get to the airport two hours early for a shoeshine or a visit to the President’s Club, accommodate him or her. Give up your habit of streaking down the gang way as the plane doors are closing, which will only cause anxiety for your travel companion. I have seen several occasions where a traveler in a group did not make the flight. Believe me, it did not make a good impression.

    5. Keep your personal life separate

    Limit calls home to times that you are in your room. Do not call the family while you are in route to the next meeting in the rental car or taxi with your boss/client. Your client/manager doesn’t want to hear that Fido had yet another accident in the family room or worse yet, that you and your spouse are fighting about where to go for the Holidays.

    6. Be prepared

    Do your homework on where you are going and any logistical challenges. Check the weather forecast of your destination and note if a jacket or umbrella is required. Don’t assume I packed a golf umbrella to cover both of us.

    7. Cash is King

    The corollary to No. 6 is nothing spends better than cash. Do you really want to pass up six taxis because they don’t accept plastic? You never can tell when an emergency will arise or credit cards aren’t accepted and you want to be the person with the solution, not the problem and there’s nothing that solves a problem like cash.

    Have I left anything out? If so, let me know.

    As managing director of The Alexander Group, an executive search firm with offices in Houston, San Francisco, San Diego, New York and Park City, John C. Lamar is a real road warrior. He files periodic reports about his travels for CultureMap.

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    New list names Texas shop one of the best indie bookstores in America

    Amber Heckler
    Apr 29, 2026 | 3:30 pm
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    Reading is all the rage in 2026.

    Dallas' Deep Vellum Bookstore is claiming new bragging rights as one of the 20 best independent bookstores in America, according to a new guide from Condé Nast Traveler. Sadly, Houston's iconic Brazos Bookstore was snubbed.

    The list was published in celebration of Independent Bookstore Day on April 25 — but every day can be Indie Bookstore Day when you're supporting your local shop rather than a national chain like Amazon or Barnes and Noble.

    Indie bookstores and physical media have been having a much needed renaissance in today's digital (and AI slop-filled) era. More than 400 new bookshops opened in 2025 alone, the American Booksellers Association reported, and local bookstores are welcome third spaces for many literature loving individuals.

    Deep Vellum won the title as the best indie bookstore in the Lone Star State, outshining several other popular Texas booksellers. Located at 3000 Commerce St. in Dallas' Deep Ellum neighborhood, Condé Nast said the bookshop serves as "one of the country’s premier translators of contemporary global literature."

    "As esoteric as its collection may seem, the bookstore itself makes exploration approachable," wrote editorial assistant Kat Chen. "Crack into a can of craft beer, gaze at the wall plastered with polaroids of smiling patrons, and tuck into an engrossing read on one of the tweed armchairs."

    Deep Vellum was founded by Will Evans in 2013 as a community-focused literary arts center and nonprofit publishing house for diverse international literature, as well as local Dallas writers. The bookstore soon followed in 2015, and operations have now expanded to five publishing imprints that produce half English-original works and half international literature.

    This mighty bookshop and publishing house has long proved its staying power even after its federal funding was axed last year. In early April, the organization revealed it would launch its inaugural Deep Vellum Music and Literature Festival from July 10-12, 2026.

    "Through literary readings, author panels, spoken word, live music performances, and community activations this festival will bring voices from across Texas and around the world," a press release said.

    Until then, Condé Nast provided some recommended reading for Texas bibliophiles that want to check out some (new-to-you) literary and psychological fiction: Tram 83 by Fiston Mwanza Mujila (translated by Roland Glasser) and Miss MacIntosh, My Darling by Marguerite Young.

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