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    Tattered Jeans

    Storm brewing: Remembering rain as a man dies in the water and a wedding laps upits waves

    Katie Oxford
    Aug 26, 2011 | 9:45 am
    • Water is a wonder in all its forms.
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Sometimes to get to paradise, you have to pass through Resort City.
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • "I had almost forgotten what rain[https://www.postandcourier.com/news/2011/aug/25/irene-bring-winds-rain-flooding-today/] soundedlike, what it smelled like. How it feels. So refreshing it brought a Mockingbirdto song. I understood."
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • A Mockingbird
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • "I thought of how water moves sand, causing loss one minute, gain the next.There’s a high tide and a low tide and a lot of stuff that happens in between.It is all pretty precious."
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Photo by Katie Oxford

    A word about water — two kinds. The Gulf, that big body of blue and great greens that gratefully, I’d been gazing on from our rental cottage in northwest Florida — and water as in RAIN, which for days had been falling like precious pellets from heaven.

    I had almost forgotten what rain sounded like, what it smelled like. How it feels. So refreshing it brought a Mockingbird to song. I understood.

    Getting caught on the beach during a gully-washer felt as freeing as being born.

    There’s only one portion of this walk that I don’t enjoy. I call it resort city. It’s an area where a row of umbrellas (about a quarter of a mile long) are staked into the sand touching tip to tip, providing shade to a sea of humanity who seemingly don’t give a shit about ecology.

    After five days of a good soaking rain, the sun came out like Popeye. I reached for my sea bean bucket and struck out for a long stroll on the beach.

    There’s only one portion of this walk that I don’t enjoy. I call it resort city. It’s an area where a row of umbrellas (about a quarter of a mile long) are staked into the sand touching tip to tip, providing shade to a sea of humanity who seemingly don’t give a shit about ecology. There are as many people sitting on the shoreline digging holes to China and scattered out in the water looking like a mass of jacks thrown across a floor.

    However, just on the other side of resort city lays a prize — a dune preservation. It’s a peaceful place where shore birds and sea turtles nest. Not people (therefore, zero litter). The sand covers the dunes like a blanket of white velvet spread over a camel’s back.

    But getting to this peaceful place (from our cottage) you gotta go through resort city. Usually, I jog through, running behind the umbrellas as fast as I can without stepping on plastic toys or something worse. But for some reason on this day (after all the rain) I just took a deep breath and upped my stride to a brisk walk.

    Once in, I quickly realized that resort city looked different. People had gotten up out of their chairs and were looking out to sea. Between the first and second sand bar, I saw a raft holding a yellow flag and two boys standing upright on surfboards with oars, paddling toward it like hell. Must be a relay race, I thought, but by the time I reached smack center of resort city, I saw faces of grave concern.

    No relay race here, this is a shark attack, but, I was wrong again.

    A teenager told me that a man, while snorkeling, had a heart attack. The scene turned to something out of the movie Jaws. As the raft, now carrying the snorkeler moved toward shore, people stood, pointing and yelling, others just silently. A few were carrying children away from the beach. A man holding hands with a little boy tried to explain.

    “Someone’s sick is all,” he said, “now they’re going to make him better.” A woman with her eyes bulging and moving through the crowd as though leaning into hurricane winds kept screaming over and over again, “Everyone get back! Move BACK!” Few budged — including me.

    Minutes later, the raft rushed ashore. A medic moved on top of the man and pushed on his chest in a steady rhythm. I then spotted a woman walking slowly in my direction — looking down and holding her hands tightly together. Maybe she was the man’s wife or maybe she wasn’t but either way — I took her lead.

    I suddenly felt ashamed for watching. I turned towards the peaceful place and started walking again — this time, a lot slower and holding my hands together too.

    On my return walk home, I stopped in resort city to inquire about the snorkeler. The lifeguard looked down and shook his head. “I don’t know, it’s a long shot,” he said.

    Still wearing my bathing suit, I went to the water too, holding a glass of champagne. From a respectable distance, I settled in the sand and watched. The ceremony was lovely.

    Sadly, I was to learn, the man was pronounced dead at a local hospital but according to some folks I talked with later — “the man died in the water.”

    Interestingly, this day would end hopeful. At sunset, several cottages west — people dressed in white tuxedos had gathered on the beach. They came to the water for a wedding.

    Still wearing my bathing suit, I went to the water too, holding a glass of champagne. From a respectable distance, I settled in the sand and watched. The ceremony was lovely. It reminded me that life (like the planet) does move in full rotation.

    Closing this day, a full moon appeared. That soft, one-eyed jack looked down on big blue, like a mother to her child. I thought of how water moves sand, causing loss one minute, gain the next. There’s a high tide and a low tide and a lot of stuff that happens in between. It is all pretty precious.

    I no longer felt sad for the man who died while snorkeling. He left this world just as he came into it — in water. Borne to another life.

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    2 Houston neighbors named safest cities in Texas and more top stories

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    Editor's note: It's time to catch up on the top Houston news of the week, from Texas' safest cities to fresh restaurant openings. Read on for our most popular stories, then visit this guide for more weekend fun.

    1. 2 Houston neighbors ranked among the top 10 safest cities in Texas. A new report says the Houston area is home to two of the safest cities in Texas. Home security review site SafeWise has ranked Memorial Villages (No. 3) and Fulshear (No. 8) on its recent list of towns unburdened by crime worries.

    2. Johnny Carrabba now serving Southern comfort food at new Bellaire locale. A fast casual, family-friendly Houston restaurant has arrived in Bellaire. After a two-week soft opening, Mia’s Table is now open full time in the Bellaire triangle.

    3. Cult-favorite chicken and waffle restaurant opens in Houston this weekend. Lo-Lo’s Chicken & Waffles will open its first Bayou City outpost on Saturday, February 21.

    4. The Rustic owners tee up new casual icehouse at Fifth Ward golf course. The team behind The Rustic is taking over operations at a downtown-adjacent golf course. Birdies Icehouse is the newest project from Dallas-based FreeRange Concepts, which operates The Rustic, Bowl & Barrel, and The General Public.

    5. Preservationists stage last-ditch attempt to save historic Houston theatre. Houstonians residing in the Heights, Garden Oaks, and far beyond were thrown into a tizzy by the abrupt news that the Garden Oaks Theater had been purchased by commercial developers in a $7.1 million, off-market deal.

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