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    Advantage, Immigrants: Newcomers provide keys to happiness, author ClaudiaKolker finds

    Tarra Gaines
    May 1, 2012 | 8:55 am
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    • The Immigrant Advantage

    When Houstonians think of Space City as the city of the future, it’s not an exaggeration, at least when it comes to demographics. In her book, The Immigrant Advantage: What We Can Learn from Newcomers to America about Health, Happiness, and Hope, Houston journalist Claudia Kolker notes that, because of immigrants and their children, 30 years in the future the rest of the United States will look like Houston does now.

    While immigration laws and policy will probably remain controversial as long as there are elections, it’s hard to deny that historically the U.S has been a country that takes its immigrants’ good ideas, traditions, and especially food, and makes them our own.

    Kolker has been studying and reporting on the lives of immigrants for decades and in that time has observed some of the best ways immigrants manage to survive and thrive in their new land. The Immigrant Advantage is an analysis of those traditions and customs and a look at how we, as individuals and communities, might use those practices for our own advantage.

    When I recently spoke with Kolker about this immigrant advantage I asked her how the book began. “I been gathering for a long time ideas that seemed very functional and smart to me,” she explained.

    “The real catalysis was living in Houston where I knew so many people from other places, who were immigrants themselves, who had practices that I saw in my daily life that I wanted to emulate."

    But it was Houston itself that gave her the wherewithal to put those ideas and observations into a book.

    “The real catalysis was living in Houston where I knew so many people from other places, who were immigrants themselves, who had practices that I saw in my daily life that I wanted to emulate, the way you end up emulating the things your friends do that seem to be successful,” she said.

    Each chapter of the book takes a look at an immigrant tradition or custom Kolker believes we as individuals and as a culture might want to adapt for our own use. Somewhat coincidentally, each chapter also corresponds to a major stage or challenge most humans face at points in their life.

    Practical solutions for everyday problems

    Kolker started out with a list of immigrant practices that simply seemed like very practical solutions for everyday problems, like how to save a little extra money each month or how to find time to feed a family a home-cooked meal. She realized each of these practices provided a strategy for navigating those big life events, like becoming a mother, educating a child, gaining financial security, finding a spouse, or creating community.

    “Once I had the seven or eight I wanted, it became very clear: Oh, these are really resonant because these are life stages that everyone, regardless of where you are from, has to grapple with, and I personally was grappling with, and why not put it in order,” Kolker described.

    However, she didn’t set out to find an immigrant custom that corresponded to every significant life stage. Instead she explained, “These were the practices that jumped out at me that I wanted those outcomes for myself. It was very selfish. It was just what can these do for me? That was the criteria. They organized themselves.”

    So can Vietnamese money clubs in Houston be an efficient and fun way to save money? Do older South Asian immigrants know the best match-making tricks when it comes to finding a mate for their adult children? Can the 40-day Mexican Cuarentena for new mothers, produce stronger mothers and babies? Is the secret to creating healthy communities found somewhere amid the sidewalks, stoops, and little shops of the poor Latino community in Chicago’s Little Village?

    These are the types of questions the book sets out to explore.

    Death is missing

    The only life stage or life challenge missing from the book is death. This was a conscious choice by Kolker because so many death rituals are linked to specific religions. “I wanted things you don’t have to be a part of the religion or ethnic group to be able to cherry pick for your purposes,” she said.

    While the book was thoroughly researched and contains 13 pages of endnotes, Immigrant Advantage will not overwhelm readers with pages of statistics or dry descriptions of cultural customs. Rather, Kolker introduces each practice through the perspective and true stories of first- and second-generation Americans who practice and adapt the traditions to their new home.

    And the stories in the book call forth a slightly different genre for each chapter. The chapter on the South Asian way to find a mate has elements of a good romance. The money clubs chapters are filled with touches of suspense. Kolker even casts herself in the role of journalist gumshoe as she sets out to solve the mystery of low rates of childhood asthma in Little Village, Chicago.

    The chapter on the South Asian way to find a mate has elements of a good romance. The money clubs chapters are filled with touches of suspense.

    Kolker also weaves her own story and insights into the chapters as she attempts to follow and adapt some of these traditions into her own life. I asked her if that made her a representative for the reader as the book examines these likely unfamiliar customs.

    “Yes. I should be a proxy," she replied with a laugh. "I’m pretty eccentric and in no way am I every woman. But I’m a pretty representative American in that I was born and raised here.”

    Besides these stories, each chapter tends to contain bits of American cultural history that serve as reminders that some of our own neglected or forgotten traditions are not that different from the ones the most recent wave of immigrants have brought with them. An extended and multigenerational Jamaican family living in the same house in New Jersey might be quite a contrast to a suburban, nuclear American household today, but would have not seemed so different to a typical American family in the 19th Century.

    “All of these customs, almost all of them, have some variation all over the world. If it works well it tends to survive and also tends adapt pretty well," she said. "I just wanted to make the point that these are not strange foreign ways that cancel out all our mistaken customs. Au contraire, they used to be our habits.”

    Expanding on this idea, she explained, “The reason why they travel so well is because they’re comfortable, and they fit and they work and you can dress them up a little bit.”

    Grab a good idea

    When I asked Kolker what it will be like, this future America that reflects the diversity and international feel of present day Houston, she responded, “A good idea is a good idea. and I hope, and I do think, that as we change up demographically this classic American idea of grabbing on to a good idea and making use of it will live on and it’s going to enrich us.”

    “We’ve got a lot of low cost, low tech, proven ideas for preventive health, for thrift, for family solidarity. We really need to make use of those ideas now. We’re under duress as a country. We can’t waste what we have right here.”

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    beat the heat

    7 family-friendly activities to do in Houston before school starts

    Jef Rouner
    Aug 5, 2026 | 11:00 am
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    Next week Houston students will start returning to school. While the quiet in the house might be nice, this is also the last chance to have some summer fun with the kids. Here are seven family-friendly outings you can hit before that first classroom bell rings.

    Recess Restaurant and Playground
    The old restaurant/playground combination has declined in recent years, and anyone who has seen kids return with red hands from sun-heated outdoor play equipment at Joe's Crab Shack can attest the Houston summer was rarely conducive to fun anyway. Located on the edge of Montrose and River oaks, Recess is a deliberate attempt to bring back that meeting of playtime and lunchtime.

    The business offers two different climate-controlled employee-supervised playgrounds, one for kids 1-3 and another for 4-11. Parents can check their children in before enjoying their meal. It's not a free service, with hourly rates starting at $18.50 for the first child on top of the cost of the meals, but it's worth it to have a quiet meal while knowing the kids are happy.

    Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus
    The end of summer break in Houston happily coincides with the return of the circus! Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey has been the premiere name in traditional circus entertainment for more than a century, offering jugglers, clowns, acrobats, and musical performances. This year, the circus is teamed with rising viral music star Maddox Batson ("Girl In Green," "No More") to have exclusive remixes at the show accompanying unicycle stunts and other circus acts. The show runs August 6-9 at NRG Stadium, with tickets starting at $36.

    Typhoon Texas Summer Hours
    This week is the end for summer hours at Houston's Typhoon Texas waterpark. After school starts, watersliding and lazy river floating will be a weekend-only event. Weather remains hot and clear for the foreseeable future, so it's the perfect time to take in the swells at Tidal Wave Bay or race each other down The Duelin' Daltons. Don't forget the sunscreen and pool shoes. Tickets range from $39.99-$59.99.

    Houston Toy Museum's Final Days
    It was a sad day when the Houston Toy Museum announced last month that it would be closing the doors of its Heights location. The whimsical collection of plastic and porcelain childhood joy has been a beloved addition to the city's list of museums for four years. The final day of operation is August 30, making it a great day activity for families looking for something to do before school starts. See this one-of-a-kind collection before it goes into storage and an uncertain future.

    Retro Video Game Expo III
    Kids today with their autosaves and aim assists don't know how good they have it when it comes to video games! Show those whippersnappers how things were in the golden olden days of Neo Geo 2D fighters and horror movie pinball table tie-ins. The Retro Video Game Expo III is a free event full of vintage console and games, but the real appeal for kids is the free-to-play arcade of 1980s classics that will be on hand. The show actually runs the weekend after school starts (August 15-16 at CSS Houston on Bissonnet), but it'll be a nice reward for a first week back on the grind.

    Cat Video Fest at River Oaks Theatre
    Few things can bring humans together like cats being ridiculous on video. River Oaks Theatre is hosting the Cat Video Fest this Friday and Saturday. Founded in memory of a beloved cat who lived on the University of Houston campus, the 70-minute show offers sweet and hilarious videos of our feline friends. A portion of ticket sales go to local cat rescues. Be sure to check out the kids menu because nothing compliments feline foolishness like a nice plate of chicken tenders.

    Newman's Castle
    Parents who want to take their kids to something they've likely never seen should head about an hour northwest of Houston to Newman's Castle in Bellville, Texas. It's a real medieval-style castle hand-built as a private home by Mike Newman (owner of Newman's Bakery in Bellville) starting in 1997. He was still working on it when he died in 2024. Located on a small, manmade lake, his family now offers tours of the bizarre and delightful home. Climb the towers, see the working drawbridge, and even have a cold lunch in the grand hall (included with the $10-$12 ticket price). Reservations are mandatory, and tours only start at 11 am.

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