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    A leak from above: Finding the wonder in a townhouse teepee

    Katie Oxford
    Nov 17, 2010 | 1:50 pm
    • Our life, like our home, was uncluttered. Communicating, less complicated.
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Our sweet townhouse was a stone’s throw from Bubba’s Sports Bar, where theFrench fries were greasy.
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Our former home, the sixth townhouse from left
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • I captured the shadow of the same tree when P and I lived there.
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Most of the time, I referred to it as the “Teepee.”
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • Over the years, though, the water stains on the wall became something beautifulto me, like art.
      Photo by Katie Oxford
    • One of the few bungalows left in "Townhouse City"
      Photo by Katie Oxford

    There’s this belief in the writing world that “less is more.” Now, I believe… in the writing world and beyond.

    It was a sweet townhouse and a stone’s throw from Bubba’s Sports Bar where the French fries were greasy and a marquee out front said something either corny or clever like “Beer is Beautiful.”

    Original homeowners lived in some of the surrounding houses, which were mostly bungalows built before WWII.

    When P and I were courting, he was leasing the townhouse. He’d left his law firm and was working for himself. I freelanced for various production companies, taught aerobics at the downtown Y, and in between, wore a tuxedo and carried a silver tray around often serving hors d’oeuvres to the same folks I’d met the night before when out on a date with P.

    Three years later, I moved into the townhouse as a bride and part homeowner. We had little money. In fact, we owed some, but God those days were sweet ... and so was our townhouse.

    We had little in it but love for one another. You could count our pieces of furniture on both hands. The walls were sheet rock — looking as though Zorro had zoomed through, making giant X’s with a white paintbrush.

    For our first party, on a Super Bowl Sunday, we rented a big screen TV and everyone ate dinner on the living room floor. Guests came out of the downstairs bathroom cracking jokes about the, “designer wallpaper.”

    The townhouse stood tall. Picture a dogtrot turned right side up. Most of the time, I referred to it as the “Teepee.” A friend, also a prop master, took the term literally and said he spent a whole afternoon driving up and down Taggart street actually looking for a wigwam.

    “Hell Katie,” he laughed, “I figured you really lived in one!”

    Although P and I weren’t young, our love was and it filled that townhouse from basement to attic like a Christmas stocking. Our life, like our home, was uncluttered. Communicating, less complicated. Technology or rather the lack thereof, spoke volumes. We had one TV (eventually two), a microwave and a Realistic stereo system (turntable that is) with speakers the size of my grandmother’s travel trunks.

    As do most homes, ours had its idiosyncrasies, but one in particular became a real nuisance. Later, it came to me as something else entirely.

    I wouldn’t say the house had a leak. Rather, a leak lived in our house. Happily, I should add, just above the fireplace in our bedroom. Whenever it rained, water didn’t drip down the wall, it streamed. We’d grab towels and pack them on top of the mantel, then rush to the phone and call the builder, who couldn’t have been nicer, or like the leak, more persistent.

    This became such a regular routine that soon, the builder was calling us at the slightest sign of a sprinkle. I’d answer the phone and with dread in his voice, hear, “PLEASE tell me it’s not leaking.”

    There were countless attempts to repair the leak and probably as many different roofers, but still, the rain poured in.

    Over the years, though, the water stains on the wall became something beautiful to me, like art. When natural light hit it during a certain time of day, it seemed to take on something spiritual. Sometimes I’d open my eyes in the morning and see a horse’s mane blowing in full stride. Other times, I’d see “Marble Fudge” ice cream, melting. During the fall, as the angle of light changed, the wall appeared vapor-like — minutes later — like a view of the Grand Canyon from outer space.

    Others weren’t quite so enthralled. One evening, a dinner guest (also real estate agent) asked if she might have a tour of the teepee. When we entered the master bedroom, she quickly got a gander of the wall and made a moaning sound. Rather than pointing to its beauty I explained that we’d tried everything under the sun, but that the leak, seemingly, had a life of it’s own.

    P didn’t find the wall nearly as fascinating but nor did he find it bothersome or seem set on fixing it.

    As more time and water went by, the more wonderful this wall became. I left the mantel empty so that nothing would obstruct the view of what was alive and clearly growing ... from above.

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    Texas families need to make this much money for one parent to stay home

    Amber Heckler
    Dec 8, 2025 | 9:30 am
    Stay at home parents, SmartAsset, income analysis
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    With costs to raise a child soaring over $20,000 a year in Texas, some households might decide to have one parent work while the other stays at home to raise their child.

    As the cost of raising a child balloons in major cities like Houston, many families are weighing the choice between paying for child care or having one parent stay home full-time.

    A recent analysis from SmartAsset determined the minimum income one parent needs to earn to support their partner staying at home to raise one child in all 50 states. In Texas — not just Houston — that amount is just under $75,000.

    The study used the MIT Living Wage Calculator to compare the annual living wages needed for a household with two working adults and one child, and a household with one working adult, a stay-at-home parent, and one child. The study also calculated how much it would cost to raise a child with two working parents based on factors such as "food, housing, childcare, healthcare, transportation, incremental income taxes and other necessities."

    A Texas household with one working parent would need to earn $74,734 a year to support a stay-at-home partner and a child, the report found. If two parents worked in the household, necessitating some additional costs like childcare and transportation, it would require an additional $10,504 in annual income to raise their child.

    SmartAsset said the cost to raise a child in Texas in a two-working-parent household adds up to $23,587. Raising a child in Houston, however, is somewhat more affordable. A separate SmartAsset study from June 2025 determined it costs $21,868 to raise a child in the Houston-Pasadena-The Woodlands metro.

    In the report's ranking of states with the highest minimum income needed to support a family with one working adult, a stay-at-home parent, and one child, Texas ranked 32nd on the list.

    In other states like Massachusetts, where raising a child can cost more than $40,000 a year, the report acknowledges ways families are working to reduce any financial burdens.

    "This often includes considerations around who’s going to work in the household, and whether young children will require paid daycare services while parents are occupied," the report said. "With tradeoffs abound, many parents might seek to understand the minimum income needed to keep the family afloat while allowing the other parent to stay home to raise a young child."

    The top 10 states with the lowest minimum income threshold to support a three-person family on one income are:

    • West Virginia – $68,099
    • Arkansas – $68,141
    • Mississippi – $70,242
    • Kentucky – $70,408
    • North Dakota – $70,949
    • Oklahoma – $71,718
    • Ohio – $72,114
    • South Dakota – $72,218
    • Alabama – $72,238
    • Nebraska – $72,966
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